Like the title reads, who do you want in your Birthday Party? hmmm...some people may say, Family and close friends, but what about inviting the so called friends who are there for you because of your money, the so called friends who care about you because of your money, car, or big house to throw parties in.
I just don't understand why some people are like that, they feel the need to impress their so called friends. What about Family WHAT about the people who will be there for you in the time of need. I just don't understand, the woman who I'm talking about it my mother.
I love and respect my mother for who she is my life, my mother the woman who gave me life and supported me while I was young. My mother will turn 50 on October 19 and will celebrate it today, a huge birthday party for her. Sounds nice right...well is not. She doesn't want her grand children running around her house while her friends are there, why well..because she doesn't want her friends to see little children running around, is that simple.
She told me "Come to my birthday party but keep the kids upstairs, I don't want to see them down here for nothing while my friends are here" oh I thought to myself, they why should I come to your Birthday party at all I said, they are after all my children and YOUR GRAND CHILDREN why do I have to be here if you don't want them here.
I don't know what more important to her, impressing her friends with her wealth on her Birthday or having her Family with her. So I'm not going to be there I decided to stay with my children tonight and have fund with them. But still it hurts, she claims she is having two birthday parties one tonight and another on Saturday night with her friends. So first thought ok on Friday she will have a birthday party for her family and the one on Saturday is for her friends. Well I was wrong.
The ten commandments say to "Honer Father and Mother" which I am, I love her and respect her and want her to be happy. I will never understand my mother, but regardless how she is I'll be there for her in her time of need. For now I will just let her have fun at her Birthday Party.